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Tuesday, February 08, 2005

Yesterday i wrote a blog about friendships. But unfortunately cause i was downloading at the time i pressed the POST button...it didnt post from the lack of bandwidth i believe.

Anyways, i came to the conclusion that it doesnt matter that noone gets to read it...cause from it...i was able to formed resolutions and think things through. So after all that, i've decided to keep it to myself. But in general, its about looking into the future and not the past. About holding onto the knowledge that some friendships will flourish and nurture with time and others wont. But its not sad because the future is what we should look forward to and the past will always be the there with the memories.

So, i was watching Ed today. It was right before Carols wedding to Dennis and she was having serious doubts and had to ask her friend (forgot her name) whether she was doing the right thing. Her friend said, thats the hardest thing you could ever ask me because whatever i say will then be forever etched in your head regardless of whether you marry him or not and i dont think i could live with that. Which Carol then said, "if you really believed i'd be happy with him, you wouldnt have needed to say that". Tu-shay!

Its probably one of the hardest thing to ask or to tell someone, but i think ultimately you shouldnt need to ask someone whether they think you'll be happy. You should know that from the bottom of your heart and if you dont...then somethings not right....

posted by Minty @ 5:23:00 pm